If you're in the process of planning your wedding, you’ve probably come across the term celebrant. But what exactly is a celebrant, and why might you want one to officiate your ceremony? This is one of the first questions many couples ask when they start thinking about their wedding day. In this guide, we’ll break down the different types of celebrants, their unique approaches, and how to choose the right one for your big day.
What is a Celebrant?
In simple terms, a celebrant is a person who officiates your wedding ceremony. In the UK, there are three main types of celebrants: Independent Celebrants, Humanist Celebrants, and Council Registrar/Celebrants. Though they all perform ceremonies, they each bring something different to the table. Here’s a breakdown of each type to help you decide which one suits your wedding vision best.
1. Independent Celebrants: The Personal Touch
If you're looking for a ceremony that's as unique as you are, an Independent Celebrant could be the perfect choice for your wedding. Independent Celebrants offer bespoke wedding celebration ceremonies uniquely tailored to you.
When you hire an Independent Celebrant, you get the freedom to have your wedding ceremony wherever and whenever you choose—whether that’s at a stunning venue, in your backyard, on a mountaintop, or even in a hot air balloon! You’ll also have the chance to incorporate elements that are important to you, like religious or spiritual beliefs, cultural practices, or personalised rituals. Independent Celebrants make sure your ceremony is completely reflective of your personalities and love story.
As an Independent Celebrant myself, I work closely with couples to create a ceremony that feels authentic to them. I take time to learn about your relationship and your vision, then design a ceremony that’s truly yours. Don’t worry if the thought of writing your own vows terrifies you —I can guide you through the process, offer pointers or write them for you! Take a look at my blog offering tips on writing your own vows and how to minimise wedding anxiety to find out more.
Why Choose an Independent Celebrant?
Tailored Experience: A ceremony that’s uniquely designed for you.
Flexible Location: You can hold the ceremony anywhere.
Personalized Rituals: Incorporate any meaningful traditions or spiritual elements.
Full Control: You decide the ceremony schedule and tone.
No Rush: No time restrictions—your celebrant will be there when you’re ready to start.
Important note: Although the Marriage Law in England and Wales is under review, currently in the UK, Independent Celebrants cannot perform legally binding marriages.
2. Humanist Celebrants: Embracing a Non-Religious Approach
Humanist Celebrants are another option for couples looking for a personalised wedding ceremony. Like Independent Celebrants, Humanists work with couples to create a ceremony that reflects their love story. However, the key difference is that Humanism is a non-religious philosophy. Humanist ceremonies focus on human experience, ethical living, and celebrating life in the here and now, without incorporating religious or spiritual elements.
If you identify with Humanist values, having a Humanist Celebrant officiate your ceremony could be a perfect fit for your wedding. They focus on celebrating the bond between you and your partner, without any religious references.
Important note: In Scotland and Northern Ireland, Humanist Celebrants can legally marry couples. However, in England and Wales, Humanist Celebrants currently cannot perform legally binding marriages.
3. Council Registrar/Celebrants: A More Traditional Approach
If you're mainly concerned with getting the legalities of marriage sorted on your wedding day, a Council Registrar/Celebrant might be your best option. Registrars are employed by local councils and are authorised to legally marry couples in the UK.
However, while registrars can officiate weddings, they generally don’t offer the personalised experience that Independent or Humanist Celebrants provide. Registrars follow strict guidelines and have limited flexibility regarding ceremony content. Although they offer some options for content, readings and symbolic gestures, they can't tailor the ceremony to the extent that celebrants can.
If you choose a registrar, you'll need to have your ceremony at a licensed venue, and registrars often conduct multiple ceremonies on the same day, meaning your ceremony could feel rushed.
Legal Weddings with an Independent or Humanist Celebrant
Many couples choose to separate the legal marriage from their personalised wedding ceremony. This means you’d attend a short statutory ceremony at the registrar’s office (usually at a cost of about £57) before your wedding day. During this brief legal ceremony, you'll sign the necessary documents with two witnesses.
Once the legalities are taken care of, you can then celebrate with a bespoke wedding ceremony on your big day, where you’ll have complete flexibility to express your love in a way that’s meaningful to you.
How to Find the Right Celebrant for Your Wedding
Choosing the right celebrant is key to ensuring your ceremony is exactly what you’ve always imagined. Here’s how you can make the right decision:
Do Your Research: Read reviews, browse websites, and talk to potential celebrants to see if their approach aligns with your vision.
Set Up a Meeting: Meeting your celebrant in person (or over video) helps you get a feel for their style and personality.
Discuss Your Vision: Make sure your celebrant understands your wishes, whether you’re looking for a spiritual ceremony or something completely secular.
Ask About Flexibility: Ensure your celebrant offers the flexibility to conduct the ceremony at the time and location of your choosing.
After the boho style wedding celebration ceremony, the bride is hugging the celebrant to say thank you
Conclusion: Celebrating Your Love Your Way
Your wedding ceremony should be as unique as your relationship. Whether you choose an Independent Celebrant, a Humanist Celebrant, or a Council Registrar, the most important thing is that you feel connected to the ceremony and that it reflects who you are as a couple.
If you have any questions or want to chat through some ideas for your wedding day, don’t hesitate to get in touch!
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